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My Child Has Been Gambling Online

You have discovered that your child has been placing bets online, using gambling apps, spending money on loot boxes or skin betting, or has accumulated debts through online gambling.

Discovering your child has been gambling online can be shocking, especially if money has been lost or debts have built up. Try to stay calm. Gambling among young people is more common than many parents realise, and it is often driven by peer pressure, advertising, or the blurred line between gaming and gambling. A supportive, non-judgemental response will help your child open up and accept help.

What to do now

1

Stay Calm and Gather Facts

Before speaking to your child, take a moment to understand the scale of the situation. Check bank statements, payment app histories, and any gambling or gaming accounts for transaction records.

✗ Do not: Do not immediately shout or punish your child — this can push gambling behaviour further underground.

2

Talk to Your Child Openly

Tell your child what you have found and ask them to help you understand what has been happening. Use calm, direct questions like 'Can you tell me about the bets you've been placing?' Avoid loaded language.

3

Assess Financial Impact

Work out how much money has been spent or owed. If your child has used your payment cards, check for any recurring subscriptions or deposits to gambling sites that need cancelling immediately.

4

Block Access to Gambling Sites

Use parental controls and network-level filters to block gambling websites and apps. Contact your bank to block transactions to gambling merchants. Remove saved payment details from your child's devices.

5

Seek Specialist Support

Contact GamCare on 0808 8020 133 for free, confidential advice and support for both you and your child. They offer specialist services for young people affected by gambling.

Preserving evidence

Why this matters

If you need to report to authorities or a platform, evidence can help.

How to talk to your child

  • Frame the conversation around concern, not punishment. Say things like 'I want to help you sort this out' rather than 'How could you do this?'
  • Explain that gambling is designed to be addictive and that needing help is not something to be ashamed of.
  • Discuss the difference between gaming mechanics (like loot boxes) and real gambling, as many children do not see the connection.

Who to contact

GamCare

Free advice and support for anyone affected by gambling, including young people and families

24/7

Gambling Commission

To report an operator that has allowed an under-18 to gamble

Online reporting available 24/7

National Debtline

If gambling debts are causing financial hardship for the family

Monday to Friday, 9am–8pm; Saturday, 9.30am–1pm

Childline

For your child to talk confidentially to a trained counsellor

24/7, 365 days a year

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Last reviewed: 2026-03-30