Does viewing self-harm content mean my child is self-harming?

Not necessarily. Some children view this content out of curiosity or because they are trying to understand difficult feelings. However, it is always worth having an open conversation and seeking professional advice if you are concerned. Early intervention is far more effective than waiting.

Should I report the self-harm content to the platform?

Yes. All major platforms have dedicated reporting categories for self-harm and suicide content. Reporting helps remove harmful material and can trigger the platform to reach out to the person who posted it with support resources. You can report without your child knowing if necessary.

เร่งด่วนมาก

My Child Is Threatening Self-Harm or Sharing Self-Harm Content Online

Your child has posted self-harm content on social media, is viewing self-harm material, or has messaged someone about wanting to hurt themselves.

Discovering that your child is engaging with self-harm content online can be deeply frightening. Your instinct may be to panic or immediately remove their devices, but staying calm is essential. Children who share or view this content are often in emotional pain and need to feel safe talking to you. Your measured response right now can be a turning point for them.

สิ่งที่ต้องทำตอนนี้

Assess Immediate Safety

If your child is in immediate physical danger or has already harmed themselves, call 999 without hesitation. If they are safe but distressed, sit with them calmly and let them know you are there.

✗ Do not: Do not leave your child alone if you believe they may be at immediate risk of harming themselves.

Talk Gently and Listen

Tell your child you have seen the content and that you are not angry — you are worried because you love them. Ask open questions such as 'Can you help me understand how you've been feeling?' and listen without interrupting.

Do Not Remove Devices Immediately

Resist the urge to confiscate phones or tablets straight away. For some children, online communities are their only perceived support. Removing access abruptly can increase distress. Focus first on connection and safety.

Contact a Crisis Helpline Together

If your child is willing, contact a helpline together. Samaritans (116 123), Childline (0800 1111), or Papyrus HOPELINEUK (0800 068 4141) can provide immediate support and guidance for both of you.

Make a Safety Plan

Work with your child and, if appropriate, a professional to create a simple safety plan. This includes who to call when they feel overwhelmed, activities that help them feel calmer, and agreeing to tell a trusted adult if they feel the urge to self-harm.

สิ่งที่ไม่ควรทำ

✗Do not react with anger, shock, or blame — this will make your child less likely to open up.
✗Do not force your child to show you all of their online activity in the moment — this feels invasive when they are vulnerable.
✗Do not dismiss their feelings or say things like 'you have nothing to be upset about'.
✗Do not share what has happened with extended family or friends without your child's permission.

การเก็บรักษาหลักฐาน

เหตุใดจึงสำคัญ

หากคุณต้องการรายงานต่อเจ้าหน้าที่หรือแพลตฟอร์ม หลักฐานสามารถช่วยได้

•If your child has received messages encouraging self-harm from another person, screenshot these including the sender's username, date, and time.
•Note the platforms involved and any group names or hashtags. You may need these details if you report to the platform or police.
•If the content is still visible, report it directly to the platform using their self-harm/suicide reporting tools before it spreads further.

วิธีพูดคุยกับลูกของคุณ

✓Use phrases like 'I'm here for you no matter what' and 'You don't have to go through this alone'. Avoid language that sounds like a lecture.
✓Let your child set the pace of the conversation. They may not want to talk straight away, and that is okay — just let them know the door is open.
✓Follow up gently over the coming days and weeks. Recovery is not a single conversation; it is an ongoing process of rebuilding trust and connection.