How to keep children safe while gaming online, including managing in-game chat, spending, and contact with strangers.
Online gaming is one of the most popular activities for children and young people. While gaming can be social, creative, and educational, it also introduces risks including contact with strangers, exposure to inappropriate content, in-game spending, and excessive play. Many games include voice and text chat that connects children directly with unknown players.
Modern online games frequently include live voice chat, text messaging, friend request systems, and multiplayer modes that put children in direct contact with other players — including adults. Some games also feature loot boxes, in-app purchases, and reward mechanics designed to encourage spending. Age ratings are often ignored, and parental controls vary widely between platforms.
1. Set up parental controls on every gaming platform
Use the built-in parental controls on PlayStation, Xbox, Nintendo Switch, and PC gaming platforms. Restrict voice chat, limit spending, and manage who can send friend requests.
2. Play together and stay informed
Take time to understand the games your child plays. Join them occasionally so you can see how the chat and social features work firsthand.
3. Check age ratings and reviews
Use PEGI ratings as a starting point, but also read parent reviews on sites like Common Sense Media for real-world insights into a game's content and social features.
Last reviewed: 2026-04-19