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Message to a private tutor or coach

Polite, clear message to a private tutor, music teacher, language coach, or one-to-one instructor about expectations and safeguards.

เมื่อใดควรใช้Use at the start of a new arrangement, or when you want to update existing expectations around communication, lesson location, recording, and safeguarding.

คำแนะนำเรื่องน้ำเสียง

  • Open with thanks. Frame this as setting things up well, not as suspicion.
  • Be explicit about communication channels and who is copied in.
  • Be explicit about cameras, recordings, and venue changes.
  • Make clear this is your standard approach, not a personal challenge.

เนื้อหาเทมเพลต

Hi [TUTOR / COACH NAME],

Thank you for working with [YOUR CHILD'S NAME] ([LESSON TYPE / FREQUENCY], [LESSON LOCATION]).

I wanted to set out a few things in writing so we're all on the same page, particularly because [YOUR CHILD'S NAME / AGE] is a child.

Communication:
[COMMUNICATION PREFERENCES]

Recording, cameras, and online lessons:
[RECORDING / CAMERA PREFERENCES]

A few standing requests from us:
- Please copy a parent into any written communication with [YOUR CHILD'S NAME].
- Please avoid direct messaging on personal social media accounts.
- If anything comes up in a lesson that worries you — about wellbeing, behaviour, or safety — please tell us.
- If you ever need to cancel or change a venue, please let us know in advance.

This isn't about you specifically — it's how we set things up with all adults who work one-to-one with our child.

Please shout if any of this is awkward for how you usually work; we'd rather agree it now than later.

Best wishes,
[YOUR NAME]
[YOUR PHONE / EMAIL]

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  • Vague language. Be specific about platforms, channels, and who is copied.
  • Sensitive personal information about your child that the tutor doesn't need.
  • Accusations or implications of past wrongdoing.

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Last reviewed: 2026-05-20Next review: 2026-08-20

This is practical educational content to support families. For case-specific concerns about a child's safety, contact the NSPCC helpline on 0808 800 5000 or your local safeguarding team.

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