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SEND & Neurodivergent Online Safety

Strength-based guidance for autistic children, ADHD, learning disabilities, speech and language needs, looked-after and kinship-care families.

Most child online-safety advice assumes a child who reads social cues easily, tolerates being asked to stop, and can spot when something feels wrong by instinct. Many SEND and neurodivergent children process the world differently — and online-safety rules that ignore that simply do not work.

This hub starts from your child’s strengths. Pattern recognition, deep loyalty to communities of interest, careful attention to fairness, and a preference for predictable interfaces can all become part of how a young person stays safe online. Where there is genuinely raised risk — for instance increased grooming vulnerability or literal interpretation of scam messages — we name it clearly and give you practical, non-judgmental steps.

These pages are written for parents and carers in the UK but are useful for foster carers, kinship carers, special schools, mainstream school SENCOs, social workers, and anyone supporting a young person with additional needs. If your child is in immediate danger, call 999.

For parents

Autistic children

A strength-based guide to supporting autistic children online — pattern recognition, special interests, and the small adjustments that make a big difference.

ADHD

Helping ADHD children build online safety habits that work with their brains, not against them — impulsivity, hyperfocus, and dopamine-aware design.

Learning disabilities

Online safety that works at your child's reading and reasoning level — easy-read rules, real-life rehearsal, and supportive structure.

Speech & language needs

Online safety for children with DLD, language disorders, or communication delay — visual rules, AAC-aware scripts, and ways to ask for help.

Grooming risk for SEND children

Honest, non-graphic guidance on why neurodivergent and SEND children are targeted more often online — and concrete steps that lower risk without blame.

Literal thinking & scams

How literal thinking patterns interact with scams, phishing, and manipulative messages — and concrete rules that work.

Gaming & regulation

Helpful structure around gaming for children with ADHD, autism, and other regulation needs — alternatives to bans that actually work.

Sensory & screen time

When screens are regulating and when they are overwhelming — a sensory-aware approach to screen-time decisions.

Visual safety rules

Picture-based online safety rules for non-readers and emerging readers — printable cards, AAC-compatible symbols, and how to use them well.

Easy-read safety

Plain-language, easy-read summaries of the core online safety rules — for children, young people, and adults with learning disabilities.

For carers, foster, and kinship

This is practical educational content to support families. For case-specific concerns about a child's safety, contact the NSPCC helpline on 0808 800 5000 or your local safeguarding team.