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Harmful Sexual Behaviour Response Using the Brook Traffic Light Tool

Guidance for school staff on distinguishing age-appropriate from concerning sexual behaviour using the Brook Sexual Behaviours Traffic Light Tool, with referral pathways.

DSLs, Deputy DSLs, pastoral staff, and early years and primary leads90 minutes for staff training session

Not all sexual behaviour by children is harmful, and not all of it requires a safeguarding referral. KCSIE 2025 expects staff to be able to differentiate developmentally typical sexual behaviour from behaviour that is concerning or harmful. The Brook Sexual Behaviours Traffic Light Tool, widely adopted in UK schools and accepted by local safeguarding partnerships, groups behaviours into green (healthy and age-appropriate), amber (outside the typical range and requiring monitoring or intervention), and red (harmful and requiring immediate safeguarding action). This resource walks staff through the model, gives age-banded examples, and sets out the response and referral steps for each tier.

What's included

Overview of the Brook Sexual Behaviours Traffic Light Tool and its age bands
Green behaviours: examples by age band and how to respond proportionately without overreacting
Amber behaviours: monitoring, family conversations, and pastoral interventions
Red behaviours: immediate safeguarding response and statutory referral thresholds
Documentation standards: language, chronology, and avoiding judgement in logs
Working with parents of both the child displaying the behaviour and the affected child
When to refer to children's social care, the police, and specialist services

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