Parent to school
Email to school about an image-sharing incident
Calm, non-graphic email about an image of your child or another pupil being shared between children.
When to use this template
Use when an image involving a child has been shared between pupils and the school needs to know. Do not attach or forward the image itself.
Tone guidance
- Stay calm. The school has clear procedures for this kind of concern.
- Keep the description non-graphic. Detail is for safeguarding professionals, not email.
- Do not name children other than your own unless essential.
- If the image may be indecent, ask the school for the right reporting route rather than handling alone.
Template
Subject: [SUBJECT LINE] Dear [DSL NAME or "Designated Safeguarding Lead"], I am writing about an image-sharing concern involving my child, [YOUR CHILD'S NAME] in [YEAR GROUP]. I want to flag this to the school in confidence and without attaching or describing the image in detail. What I know: - I became aware of this on [WHEN YOU LEARNED OF IT]. - The image is [NON-GRAPHIC DESCRIPTION]. - It appears to be circulating via [HOW IT IS BEING SHARED]. - Others involved (if known): [OTHERS INVOLVED IF KNOWN]. Steps I have already taken: [STEPS ALREADY TAKEN] I have not forwarded the image and I am not attaching it. I understand that sharing such images, even to evidence a concern, can itself cause harm or be unlawful. I would be grateful if the school could: - Treat this as a safeguarding matter. - Advise me on the right next step (including whether to report to CEOP, the police, or the Internet Watch Foundation). - Confirm who will be the named contact for this. My child knows I have contacted the school. Kind regards, [YOUR NAME] [YOUR PHONE / EMAIL]
Fields to replace
Before sending, swap every bracketed placeholder for your own details. If a field does not apply, delete the whole line.
- Subject line
[SUBJECT LINE] - Recipient
[DSL NAME or "Designated Safeguarding Lead"] - Your child's name
[YOUR CHILD'S NAME] - Year group / class
[YEAR GROUP] - When you became aware
[WHEN YOU LEARNED OF IT] - What kind of image (non-graphic description)
[NON-GRAPHIC DESCRIPTION]e.g. "a photo my child sent in confidence" or "a screenshot taken from a video call". Do not describe nudity in detail.
- How it is being shared
[HOW IT IS BEING SHARED] - Who is involved (if known)
[OTHERS INVOLVED IF KNOWN] - Steps already taken
[STEPS ALREADY TAKEN] - Your name
[YOUR NAME] - Contact details
[YOUR PHONE / EMAIL]
What to attach
- Nothing graphic. A short timeline only, if helpful.
- If you have already reported to CEOP or the IWF, mention the date and reference (if any).
What not to include
- The image itself. Never attach, forward, or download an indecent image of a child.
- Detailed descriptions of nudity or sexual content.
- Speculation about other children's intentions.
- Public posts about which pupils are involved.
Related
External sources
- Report Remove (NSPCC and IWF) — Childline / IWF
- CEOP Safety Centre — National Crime Agency (CEOP)
Last reviewed: 2026-05-20Next review: 2026-08-20Reviewed against: UK safeguarding practice
This is practical educational content to support families. For case-specific concerns about a child's safety, contact the NSPCC helpline on 0808 800 5000 or your local safeguarding team.