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Email to school about an image-sharing incident

Calm, non-graphic email about an image of your child or another pupil being shared between children.

When to use this template

Use when an image involving a child has been shared between pupils and the school needs to know. Do not attach or forward the image itself.

Tone guidance

  • Stay calm. The school has clear procedures for this kind of concern.
  • Keep the description non-graphic. Detail is for safeguarding professionals, not email.
  • Do not name children other than your own unless essential.
  • If the image may be indecent, ask the school for the right reporting route rather than handling alone.

Template

Subject: [SUBJECT LINE]

Dear [DSL NAME or "Designated Safeguarding Lead"],

I am writing about an image-sharing concern involving my child, [YOUR CHILD'S NAME] in [YEAR GROUP].

I want to flag this to the school in confidence and without attaching or describing the image in detail.

What I know:
- I became aware of this on [WHEN YOU LEARNED OF IT].
- The image is [NON-GRAPHIC DESCRIPTION].
- It appears to be circulating via [HOW IT IS BEING SHARED].
- Others involved (if known): [OTHERS INVOLVED IF KNOWN].

Steps I have already taken:
[STEPS ALREADY TAKEN]

I have not forwarded the image and I am not attaching it. I understand that sharing such images, even to evidence a concern, can itself cause harm or be unlawful.

I would be grateful if the school could:
- Treat this as a safeguarding matter.
- Advise me on the right next step (including whether to report to CEOP, the police, or the Internet Watch Foundation).
- Confirm who will be the named contact for this.

My child knows I have contacted the school.

Kind regards,
[YOUR NAME]
[YOUR PHONE / EMAIL]

Fields to replace

Before sending, swap every bracketed placeholder for your own details. If a field does not apply, delete the whole line.

  • Subject line[SUBJECT LINE]
  • Recipient[DSL NAME or "Designated Safeguarding Lead"]
  • Your child's name[YOUR CHILD'S NAME]
  • Year group / class[YEAR GROUP]
  • When you became aware[WHEN YOU LEARNED OF IT]
  • What kind of image (non-graphic description)[NON-GRAPHIC DESCRIPTION]

    e.g. "a photo my child sent in confidence" or "a screenshot taken from a video call". Do not describe nudity in detail.

  • How it is being shared[HOW IT IS BEING SHARED]
  • Who is involved (if known)[OTHERS INVOLVED IF KNOWN]
  • Steps already taken[STEPS ALREADY TAKEN]
  • Your name[YOUR NAME]
  • Contact details[YOUR PHONE / EMAIL]

What to attach

  • Nothing graphic. A short timeline only, if helpful.
  • If you have already reported to CEOP or the IWF, mention the date and reference (if any).

What not to include

  • The image itself. Never attach, forward, or download an indecent image of a child.
  • Detailed descriptions of nudity or sexual content.
  • Speculation about other children's intentions.
  • Public posts about which pupils are involved.

Related

External sources

Last reviewed: 2026-05-20Next review: 2026-08-20Reviewed against: UK safeguarding practice

This is practical educational content to support families. For case-specific concerns about a child's safety, contact the NSPCC helpline on 0808 800 5000 or your local safeguarding team.