Communication Strategies That Work
Practical techniques for engaging teenagers in safety conversations.
Conversation techniques
Use side-by-side conversations (during car journeys, while cooking), share relevant news stories as conversation starters, ask their opinion rather than giving yours, and use 'I' statements ('I worry about...' instead of 'You need to...'). Short, frequent check-ins work better than long lectures.
Key takeaway
Side-by-side, casual conversations are far more effective than sit-down lectures with teenagers.
Active listening
When your teen does open up, resist the urge to immediately fix, judge, or lecture. Listen fully, validate their feelings, and ask what they need from you before offering solutions.
Key takeaway
Listening without judgement is the most powerful way to keep the lines of communication open.