TikTok Safety Guide for Parents
A practical guide to keeping your child safe on TikTok, including privacy settings, content controls, and what parents need to know.
Official age
13+
We recommend
15+
Developer
ByteDance
Risks
4
Overview
TikTok is a short-form video platform where users watch, create, and share clips set to music or audio. Its powerful algorithm quickly learns what content a viewer enjoys, which can lead to extended viewing sessions. The app has over a billion monthly active users worldwide and is one of the most popular platforms among teenagers.
How children use it
Children primarily scroll through the For You feed watching entertaining videos, dance trends, and comedy sketches. Many also create and upload their own content, sometimes sharing personal details without realising the audience size. Older teens may use direct messaging and go live to interact with followers.
Main risks
Recommended privacy settings
Private Account
Location: Profile → Settings and Privacy → Privacy → Private Account
Set to: On
Only approved followers can see your child's videos. This is the single most important setting to enable.
Family Pairing
Location: Profile → Settings and Privacy → Family Pairing
Set to: Linked to parent account
Links your TikTok account to your child's so you can manage their privacy, screen time, and messaging settings remotely.
Restricted Mode
Location: Profile → Settings and Privacy → Content Preferences → Restricted Mode
Set to: On
Filters out content that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Not perfect, but a useful extra layer of protection.
Direct Messages
Location: Profile → Settings and Privacy → Privacy → Direct Messages
Set to: No One (under 16) / Friends Only
Prevents strangers from sending private messages. For under-16s, TikTok now disables DMs by default in many regions.
Parent actions
Set up Family Pairing and enable a private account before your child starts using the app
Time: 10 minutes
Talk to your child about not sharing personal details such as school name, location, or full name in videos
Time: 15 minutes
Review the For You feed together occasionally to understand what content the algorithm is serving
Time: 10 minutes weekly
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If you need to report this
In immediate danger: call 999. For non-emergency police matters, call 101.
Concerned about a child but it's not an emergency? NSPCC helpline 0808 800 5000. Childline for young people 0800 1111.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Last reviewed: 2026-03-15